Kajian Hukum Islam terhadap Tradisi Talitihan: Analisis Praktik Lokal di Desa Batangsari, Kecamatan Sukasari, Kabupaten Subang

Abstract

Talitihan is a term in Sundanese which means giving something in the form of groceries such as rice, sugar,
instant n oodles, cakes and money, gifts and others to people who are going to get married. The aim is to help
fellow Muslims and connect friendship ties to strengthen ukhuwwah Islamiyyah. The purpose of this study was
to find out the practice of Talitian carried ou t by all the people of the Batangsari Village, Subang Regency
and a review of Islamiclaw on the practice of Talitihan in the implementation of marriages in the Batangsari
Village, Subang Regency. The type of research that researchers use in this study is a phenomenological
approach. This study isdescriptive in nature, providing a complete and detailed description of the problems of
Islamic law against the Talitihan tradition during the marriage ceremony in the Batangsari Village, Subang
Regency. Thisresearc h method is qualitative. Data collection techniques are carried out in 3 ways, namely
observation, interviews and documentation. The results of this studyindicate that a tradition that has
developed in the people of the Batangsari Village, Subang Regency i s that they demand the Talitihan
(donation) they have given back by reprimanding or reminding the person who has received the Talitihan, if
the return is not in accordance with the gift, either in the form of goods nor money. The uniqueness of the
Talitiha n tradition in the Batangsari Villageis that in this case Talitian's gifts or donations must be returned
in accordance with the gift. Review of Islamic Law in the tradition that developed in the Batangsari Village,
Subang Regency, namely asking for Talitih an(donations) that have been given back is permissible, because
the form of grants applied in the Batangsari Hamlet community expects a return in the grant, if the person he
gives does not reciprocate grant, then he has the right to ask for it back.